Why Do the Worst People Seem to Succeed?

Simply put: They learn to play the game.

Yes, it is a perplexing observation: time and again, we see individuals with questionable morals or outright malevolent traits rising to success. This phenomenon isn’t just a coincidence; it is deeply rooted in human nature, shaped by our evolutionary psychology and structured social systems. In a world where resources are limited, competition becomes inevitable, and the rules of engagement can often favor those who embody ruthlessness over fairness.

The Nature of Power: Master Morality vs. Slave Morality

Friedrich Nietzsche, a seminal philosopher, delves into the nature of power through the lens of morality. He distinguishes between two types of moral frameworks: master and slave. 

- Master Morality, is characterized by values that arise from the strong and powerful. It celebrates traits like ambition, strength, and assertiveness, viewing these as virtues. Those who subscribe to master morality create their own values and are not bound by societal norms that undermine their ambitions.

- Slave Morality, on the other hand, emerges from the perspective of the weak and oppressed. It values traits such as humility, obedience, and sacrifice. This moral framework is a reaction to the dominance of the powerful, emphasizing the importance of community and compassion. However, it often leads to a psychological adaptation that is more about coping with powerlessness than about thriving in competition.

In this landscape, it is apparent that those who prioritize ruthlessness - aligned with master morality; they are more likely to succeed. Their ambition is not shackled by the constraints of fairness or ethical considerations. Instead, they navigate the world with an unyielding focus on their goals and obtaining them by any means necessary.

The Uncomfortable Truth About Power

The uncomfortable truth is that power, in its purest form, does not concern itself with morality. It is a tool that can be wielded for various purposes, often indifferent to the moral implications of its use. This reality can feel disheartening, especially for those who adhere to doing only what is right (slave morality), which emphasizes kindness and cooperation. 

However, to truly understand the dynamics of power, one must learn to transcend the ruthless play of the never ending game. And instead, view power as a battleground of right vs. wrong, consider it a tool that can be wielded effectively. 

Learning to Compete

To thrive in this environment, one must learn how to compete. This doesn’t entail embracing cruelty or ruthlessness; rather, it involves understanding the rules of the game and playing them to your advantage. Here are three potential paths in this journey:

1. Be Ruthless: Embrace the traits associated with master morality. This route may lead to success, but it comes with ethical compromises that can haunt one’s conscience.

2. Play the Victim: This path involves accepting a subordinate role and relying on the sympathy of others. It may provide temporary relief but often results in stagnation and resentment. Or,

3. Learn the Rules of the Game: This is the most strategic approach. Understand the dynamics of power and competition, and use your knowledge to navigate the landscape effectively. You do not have to be cruel to succeed; rather, you can employ intelligence, emotional awareness, and strategic thinking.

Choice to learn the Game: Don’t Let Fear Overtake You

Fear can be a paralyzing force, preventing individuals from taking the necessary risks to achieve their goals. Instead of succumbing to fear, embrace it as a part of the journey. Recognize that competition is a natural aspect of human existence, and learning to navigate it can empower you.

The success of those who embody ruthlessness can often feel like an affront to our ethical sensibilities. However, understanding the nature of power and competition allows us to reframe our approach. By learning the rules of the game and using power as a tool, we can find success without sacrificing our values. The path may be challenging, but it is one that can lead to meaningful achievements without compromising our integrity.